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Meeting The Chongs

Sunday - 13th June 2010 - Crystal Jade, Mid Valley.

It was a Sunday evening, and Tania had promised to pick me up from my house before bringing me to Mid Valley to meet her parents. She'd dropped that little surprise on me the week before 'The Day'. Now, I had nothing against meeting her parents, mind you. I was sure they were wonderful people and all that, but if I had my way, I would prefer an informal one. And to top it off, the dinner was on Father's Day.

Bla bla bla...excuses, excuses and excuses! As a Matter-Of-Fact, I was scared out of my pants that day. 

I was pretty sure things will turn out well, though I kept my fingers crossed - I have loads of questions about her parents that cross my mind; how would her parents treat me if I kept their daughter out until the wee hours, even if all we did was walking in a park? 

Granted, she was an adult, but parents being parents when it came to their own kids, and I was under no illusions that they'd be understanding about the whole thing. She would always be their little girl, if you know what I mean.

But Tania had a point when she explained it to me. I had to meet them someday. Besides, she sounded so excited about the whole thing that all I could say was that I was looking forward to meeting them. Still, I wondered if I'd even be able to hold her hand, and I speculated about whether I could talk her into taking a little detour, should the meeting be at another day? or perhaps another occasion would be better? moon cake festival?

As soon as we reached Mid Valley, my anticipation grew and I could feel my ticker booming. But I didn't know how to act. Should I jog a little toward them as soon as I spotted them or stroll casually, cool and in control? I still wasn't sure, but before I could dwell on it, they were already sitting at the dinning table. I didn't see them at first - too many folks milling around. When Tania told me they are already here, I scanned the area a second time and realized instantly that all my worries had been pointless, for they already spotted us walking towards the table. Her family were waiting for us.

I don't know how long we stood together saying hi to every family member, but when we finally began moving to our seats, I slipped my hand into hers knowing that I loved her not only more than the last time, but more than I would ever love anyone. I want her to know that I'll be feelin' fine and enjoy spending time with her and her family. 

Surprising me, her mom started a conversation with me as soon as I seated down, then extended me a big smile of welcome. It was great. Tania's mom, aunty, was a lot like Tania: friendly, pleasant, and a lot sharper than she first came across. Her dad was cool, charming and I actually had a good time meeting them. It didn't hurt that Tania held my hand the whole time and seemed completely at ease doing so. 


Toward the end of the evening, she and I went to Baskin Robbins to top things off with some desserts. By the time we got back to the house, it felt almost as if I'd known her parents for a long time. Her family is really nice to me and treat me like I'm part of their family. It was a great first meet. 

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